Millions of people around the globe look forward to weddings. Planning can take at least a month, and hours are spent deciding the style and atmosphere.
But once it arrives, you know you will not be able to enjoy it. You will either do it all to make sure everyone is happy or not cut yourself a break because you will feel you have no time for that. It is not fair: you will remember this day with a smile on your face for the rest of your life, and you need to recall the party, the drinks, and the time spent with your life partner. This guide is for love birds who want to organize their wedding day for themselves, not for the sake of their guests.
Start Early
If there is but one thing that will cause you to crack and break down during a wedding, it is 100% when you leave things to the last possible second and have to do things at the 11th hour. Starting early and sticking to the plan is the key. It will help you think more clearly and be more organized with all your decisions. This will ease much stress and anxiety over minor details in the long term.
The key is to stay within your plan and start early enough. Being prepared is different from obsessing and manifesting disasters that haven’t come to be – and starting too early can cause a chance to change your mind, leading to further frustrations and stress.
Make Every Moment Count
Time is valuable, so make every minute of your big day count. It also means that you should skip everything that doesn’t matter much to you and your partner. Maybe you hate throwing your bouquet or cutting the cake? You don’t need to do that! Weddings are supposed to reflect your and your partner’s personalities. This day is yours; you can make it your own, as unique as you are. Therefore, do not burden your day with traditions you don’t like.
Stress Less with a Wedding Manager
Hiring a wedding manager ensures that someone will handle all the drama and problems during the wedding day, making you feel less stressed and happier. Having someone with professional experience dealing with guests, parties, and strong emotions is a plus for the couple. Most people cut this expense from the list, but you can spare time and patience if you add this extra.
Don’t Skip Breakfast on Your Wedding Day
Your wedding day is not the day to skip breakfast! This should be common sense, but your nerves may get the best of you, and you might forget to eat. You’re going to be so busy on your wedding day. Even if you don’t want to, give your body all the necessary nutrients.
Not only will it keep you energized and healthy on your special day, but it will also keep you from feeling sick! Other than breakfast, have your favorite snacks readily available in places you’ll be, or assign one person to ensure you’re eating on the day of. The last thing you want is to feel sick or light-headed on your wedding day.
Enjoy the Preparation Process
Take time to prepare yourself. Preparing for a special celebration, especially a church wedding ceremony, shouldn’t be done in a rush. The couple should enjoy their time while preparing to say “yes” to each other. It is also essential for women to start preparing early since the arrangements might take longer than the groom’s.
The preparation process is crucial for the bride, and it’s essential to approach it with a sense of enjoyment rather than stress. Never treat the getting ready part as if it were a horse race. Instead, savor the moments, make memories, and ensure the preparation time is as unique as the celebration.
Watch Out for Alcohol
You will want to remember this day clearly for the rest of your life. Typically, the combination of inadequate eating and excessive alcohol is a disaster. Drinking excessively is for your friends’ weddings, not your own. However, you have a better chance of not getting wasted by drinking a full glass of water between every alcoholic drink. This simple precaution can help you stay hydrated and enjoy your special day.
Stay Flexible
Every wedding, even the best-planned ones, tends to have a few hiccups. It happens at every wedding, even when there are planners. Stay nimble, listen to the experts, and do not be so stuck in your ways that you cannot see other ways when needed.
Consider making changes to your plans, and above all, remember that what is most important about your special day is your commitment to one another.
Trust Yourself
It is natural to second-guess every decision during the wedding planning process because you are likely not a wedding planner, and this is (hopefully) the only time in your life you will plan a wedding.
The key is to trust yourself. Trust your instincts about hiring vendors, guest lists, and other essential details. Trust your gut—don’t let anyone tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. This will erase any doubt, making your wedding preparation more light-hearted.
Live the Moment, Not the Screen
It is not the time to share your love on social media; it is time to live it! Take some selfies and occasionally record videos of the wedding, but make sure you won’t spend the day updating social media. Everyone will try to reach you and congratulate you. Keep the focus on yourself and your celebration day. Enjoy each moment, be present with your loved ones, and savour the memories being created. This day is about you and your partner, so let the world wait and cherish the experience firsthand.
Your wedding day is a celebration of your unique journey as a couple. Focus on what truly matters, stay present, and enjoy each moment. Surround yourself with supportive people and prioritize your happiness. Let your wedding reflect your love and story, creating joyful and lasting memories.
